Possum is 8 years 3 months
Bandicoot is 6 years 1 month
Little Princess is 3 years 7 months
Hi! Remember me? ~waves~
We have had a busy and tough year this year. Bandicoot joined our homeschool, with all his quirks and vivacity. It has been a challenge for me to step up to the plate, especially as nothing I had planned or had previously used with Possum worked with him. Really. Nothing.
I have spent a lot of time in tears and in prayer. I would probably have done better to do those in the other order. I have also spent too many waking hours reading about kids like him and what works for them. Some ideas I just cannot implement because of my personality and skills, and some I can. Some of them sound fantastic and do not work at all when I try them. Some of them sound ridiculous and work a treat. It has been a steep, steep learning curve, and I am just beginning.
At the same time, Possum and Little Princess continue to grow and change as well. Nothing ever stays the same with kids. There is a lot of adapting required in parenting!
Thankfully, we are coming out of that four months or so of the year that I always find the most difficult – from approximately two months before Possum’s birthday until two months after Bandicoot’s. It seems to always coincide with mental and emotional growth spurts for them, leaving us all unsettled.
This year it has coincided with a health upset for me. I have had a rather significant “arthritic flare-up” in my knees. We do not know what caused it. We do not know if it will happen again. We do know it is less than pleasant. There has been extreme pain involved, a lot of fear as I was tested for any number of things, and a LOT of inconvenience as I have been almost crippled for weeks or months at a time. (For quite a while I could barely move from bed to lounge, let alone get down the two steps at the front of the house to go outside.)
With all of this going on, blogging has fallen down the priority list. Also, it is hard to be positive or inspiring when life is full of tears, pain and fear. It is hard to think of the bright side when your head is under water. And there are probably a lot of times in the last few months that I would prefer to forget, rather than have recorded and shared with you.
But now, I hope, things are a little better, a little more settled. Now, I hope, I have grown a bit more.
Now I hope, I will get to share some of our adventure with you again.